Meghan Markle and Prince Harry | Source: Getty Images
Over the years, the affectionate moments between the Duke and Duchess of Sussex have been captured countless times on camera. Recently, a body language expert delved into the significance of their public displays of affection.
Meghan Markle’s physical displays of affection toward her husband Prince Harry have garnered public attention. In addition to social media users sharing their eye-brow-raising thoughts on these moments, a body language expert has shed light on the deeper meaning behind these public displays of affection.
From the beginning, the royal couple faced skepticism regarding their relationship. In his memoir, “Spare,” Prince Harry recounted the moment he introduced Markle to his family in 2016. He shared that his father, King Charles III, initially liked her, but his brother, Prince William, was more reserved, and reportedly
referred
to Markle as “an American actress.”
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle attend a photocall in the Sunken Gardens on November 27, 2017, in London, England. | Source: Getty Images
Although the Duke of Sussex didn’t name specific individuals, he suggested that other royal family members were also uncomfortable.
In a January 2023 interview, Prince Harry reflected on his wife’s early unfavorable encounters with his family,
saying
, “Right from the beginning, before they even had a chance to get to know her. And the U.K. press jumped on that. And here we are.”
Prince Harry during the Opening Ceremony of the Invictus Games 2023 on September 9, 2023, in Dusseldorf, Germany. | Source: Getty Images
Asked if that was because of mistrust, the royal
explained
, “The fact that she was American, an actress, divorced, Black, biracial with a Black mother. Those were just four of the typical stereotypes that is– becomes a feeding frenzy for the British press.”
Despite the initial negative reception, Prince Harry didn’t let it stop him from moving forward with his relationship with Markle. He proposed in 2017, and the two exchanged vows in May 2018. The following year, in May 2019, they welcomed their first child, son Prince Archie.
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle wave from the Ascot Landau Carriage on May 19, 2018, in Windsor, England. | Source: Getty Images
A year later, in January 2020, the Duke and Duchess of Sussex made headlines when they
revealed
their intention to step down from their roles as “senior” members of the royal family and focus on becoming financially independent.
“After many months of reflection and internal discussions, we have chosen to make a transition this year in starting to carve out a progressive new role within this institution,” the statement
read
.
Meghan Markle and Prince Harry during their visit to Canada House on January 7, 2020, in London, England. | Source: Getty Images
They also shared their plans to split their time between the UK and North America. Notably, it was reported that neither Queen Elizabeth II nor Prince William had been consulted before the announcement, leading to disappointment within Buckingham Palace. Senior royals were
said
to feel “hurt” by the couple’s decision.
The couple later welcomed their second child, daughter Princess Lilibet, in June 2021. Since stepping away, Prince Harry and Markle’s relationship has faced increased scrutiny from both the media and the public. The Duchess, in particular, became noticeably absent from public life in England.
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle speak during the 2021 Global Citizen Live festival on September 25, 2021, in New York City. | Source: Getty Images
Markle accompanied Prince Harry to the funeral of the late Queen Elizabeth II in September 2022 but has since
not returned
to his homeland, even opting to miss King Charles III’s coronation.
Moreover, Prince Harry has been stepping out alone more frequently, with solo trips to New York and the UK in September 2024, including attending a charity event without Markle. Biographer Phil Dampier noted that the prince, now 40, seems to be searching for a new purpose and is eager to find causes that bring more meaning to his life.
Prince Harry attends the Wellchild Awards 2024 on September 30, 2024, in London, England. | Source: Getty Images
“Harry sometimes feels like a spare part and he often looks unhappy when he’s out with Meghan at events in California,”
said
the author. While Markle prefers to stay in California, her spouse appears to be embracing more independent ventures.
Moreover, while Prince Harry’s solo appearances have drawn attention and sparked conversations, his public interactions with Markle have not gone unnoticed. Their dynamic continues to be a point of interest.
Meghan Markle and Prince Harry during The Duke and Duchess of Sussex Colombia Visit on August 17, 2024, in Cartagena, Colombia. | Source: Getty Images
The Duchess is often seen showing affection toward the Duke in public, whether holding his hand or gently placing a hand on his back. According to body language expert Judi James, this frequent physical touch carries deeper significance for the couple.
Markle uses various forms of touch to communicate with Prince Harry, often signaling their connection. James
explained
that the royal’s “double clutch,” where she holds her partner with both hands, could be a “gesture of possession.”
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle attend a photocall in the Sunken Gardens on November 27, 2017, in London, England. | Source: Getty Images
Another common gesture is her hand on his knee, which James
described
as a “sensual” display of physical attraction and a “signal of ownership.”
Markle’s tendency to clasp her husband’s arm and hand is not new. She first displayed this gesture during their engagement announcement in 2017.
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle attend a photocall in the Sunken Gardens on November 27, 2017, in London, England. | Source: Getty Images
James
said
this “clingy clutch” initially signaled a desire to keep Prince Harry close, but more recently, it has taken on a “gesture of possession,” as if to say, “He’s mine.”
The gesture emphasizes that the Duke of Sussex is her priority while allowing for a subtle, sensual touch if her fingers meet his bare arm. This possessive display was also seen at the ESPY Awards in July 2024 when the couple posed with Serena Williams.
Meghan Markle, Prince Harry, and Serena Williams attend the 2024 ESPY Awards on July 11, 2024, in Hollywood, California. | Source: Getty Images
Markle frequently opts to hold Prince Harry’s arm instead of his hand. James
noted
this bicep grip symbolizes her “surrendered” admiration of his strength and masculinity. While allowing him to take the lead, the subtle touch keeps her involved as part of their “double act,” maintaining their close connection.
Meghan Markle and Prince Harry attend Christmas Day Church service on December 25, 2017, in King’s Lynn, England. | Source: Getty Images
In addition, the actress often uses both hands to hold one of Prince Harry’s in what James
termed
a “double clasp” gesture. She
explained
that this is the “strongest form of hand linking,” which enhances their image as a “romantic couple.”
Meghan Markle and Prince Harry attend the Invictus Games One Year To Go Event on February 15, 2024, in Whistler, Canada. | Source: Getty Images
Dubbed the “hand sandwich,” this gesture was notably seen during their engagement photoshoot, where Markle gazed up at Prince Harry as they shared smiles.
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle attend a photocall in the Sunken Gardens on November 27, 2017, in London, England. | Source: Getty Images
Markle’s frequent touch, beyond simply seeking closeness, may also be a sign of “physical attraction or a more maternal form of ownership,” James
claimed
. The Duchess is often seen placing her hand on Prince Harry’s thigh or knee, as she did at the ESPY Awards.
Meghan Markle and Prince Harry attend the 2024 ESPY Awards on July 11, 2024, in Hollywood, California. | Source: Getty Images
During the event, where the couple smiled warmly, Markle, dressed in a white gown, rested her hand on her husband’s knee in what could be
interpreted
as an “intimate or exclusive” gesture. James
noted
that touching his knee or thigh “stamps” the prince with a sense of ownership, and the move is undeniably sensual.
Meghan Markle and and Prince Harry during The Duke and Duchess of Sussex’s Colombia Visit on August 15, 2024, in Bogota, Colombia. | Source: Getty Images
One of Markle’s more nurturing gestures is her hand on Prince Harry’s back. James
suggested
that this “steering” movement hints at the Duchess taking on the role of host, and possibly leader once they were in the US, using it to guide the Duke as she introduced him to others.
Meghan Markle, Prince Harry, and Kate Robertson on stage during the Opening Ceremony of the One Young World Summit 2022 on September 5, 2022, in Manchester, England. | Source: Getty Images
Markle’s tactile gestures are often matched by Prince Harry, creating a balance in their public displays of affection. While she frequently uses touch to guide or comfort him, Prince Harry’s hand is often placed firmly on hers, with his arm positioned in front.
James
observed
that this hand placement is a “dominant gesture,” signaling the royal’s desire to take the lead and showcase his protective nature toward his wife.
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle visit the Lightway Academy on May 10, 2024, in Abuja, Nigeria. | Source: Getty Images
Online users quickly shared their thoughts on the dynamic between the Duke and Duchess.
“It is obvious she is controlling him,”
remarked
one person. Another user
added
,
“She gives orders to him, tells him when to stop talking to people.”
Others focused on the couple’s interactions in the spotlight.
“She clutches him whenever she wants to be part of the attention focused his way, [sic] when she is insecure. She is now the happier-looking one while he looks somber a lot of the time,”
observed
another.
Meghan Markle and Prince Harry arrive at the Royal Salute Polo Challenge on April 12, 2024, in Wellington, Florida. | Source: Getty Images
A third echoed this sentiment,
writing
,
“She’s controlling him with these ‘subtle’ gestures! The hand on the knee or holding his hand, a quick tightening of the grip or a tug showing who is in control!”
The public’s fascination with
Prince Harry
and
Meghan Markle’s
body language continues to fuel discussions, with many speculating on the deeper meaning behind their gestures. Whether viewed as affectionate or controlling, their interactions remain a constant topic of interest.