However, it seems that restaurant etiquette might be influenced more by one’s age rather than just past work experiences in the industry.
In 2020, a server named Kate uploaded a video to TikTok illustrating the contrasting manners of a group of Baby Boomers compared to Gen Z patrons. Watch the video here:
The younger diners made an effort to return the table to its original state, arranging plates and cups neatly, with any rubbish stacked on top.
In comparison, the older diners left their table cluttered with partially eaten food, napkins, and a general mess, departing without tidying up their area.
Due to the clear difference between the state of the two tables, Kate emphasized the courteousness of younger patrons towards service staff in her caption, which read: “They get paid to do that VS we know restaurant life is hard here, let us help you out.”
In an interview with Buzzfeed, Kate clarified that her intent in sharing the video was not to criticize older customers but rather to highlight acts of politeness and respect.
“I posted it because I thought it was ironic since older people always expect respect,” Kate explained.
“All I’m saying is it was cool and helpful of the younger people, and I appreciated it,” she continued.
The video prompted a range of opinions, and many TikTok users expressed their thoughts in the comments section.
Kate initially removed the video after it went viral, citing pressure from her employer, but she re-uploaded it after leaving her job.
One commenter remarked: “Would you like them to place the order and pick up their food from the chef also??? I mean why keep you if the customers will be doing all the work?”
“What r u sayin though? It’s ur job either way. Just sayin,” another added.
However, some commenters showed support for Kate’s perspective.
“It’s not hard to clean up after yourself and make things easier on staff,” one person commented.
Reflecting similar views, another shared: “My dad always taught me not to leave the place a mess when I leave. It’s not hard.”
What are your thoughts on this topic?