Even before exchanging words, you might sense that a new acquaintance is emanating negative energy.
The unsettling feeling that someone dislikes you almost instantly can be difficult to deal with, and you might be tempted to dismiss it as mere paranoia.
However, this gut feeling is actually quite common and might indicate that you’re picking up on subtle body language cues, even if they’re not immediately apparent.
If you’re not naturally adept at reading these signals, a psychologist has outlined five key signs that suggest you may not have made a favorable first impression.
Francesca Tighinean, a psychologist based in the US with a background of studies in London, shared insights on this topic with her 1.3 million followers on TikTok in a new video.
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One of the simplest indicators that someone is not fond of you is their avoidance of eye contact.
“This may suggest they are trying to avoid deeper connection or conversation,” she explained.
Pressed lips, according to Francesca, represent the second sign, as they can serve as ‘a nonverbal cue of irritation, stress, or disapproval.’
Another indicator is the orientation of the person’s body and feet, which can also provide clues about their feelings.
She continued: “Number three, turning their body or feet away from you. This can indicate a desire to disengage. They might subconsciously position themselves toward an exit or away from the interaction.”
If the person you’re unsure about stands with crossed arms, takes a step back, or keeps a noticeable distance, it might signify discomfort and the setting of boundaries.
“Placing objects, such as a bag or crossed arms, between you can symbolize a need for psychological or physical space,” Francesca revealed. “Similarly, taking a step back or maintaining a noticeable distance can suggest discomfort.”
Finally, Francesca noted that facial expressions are very telling, saying: “A lack of genuine smiles or limited facial expressions signals disinterest or lack of warmth in the interaction.”
If you frequently encounter these five signs, Francesca suggested ways to encourage people to like you more readily.
In her video, she recommends asking the person for a small favor, using their name often, and pausing briefly before responding to convey thoughtfulness.
So, the next time you encounter cold body language, you’ll know what steps to take to potentially turn a chilly reception into a warmer relationship.